Tuesday, February 9, 2010

~.:11 ways to get along better with ANYONE:.~

1. Before you say anything to anyone:
a. Is it true?
b. Is it kind?
c. Is it necessary?

2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully.

3. Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging to someone.

4.Refuse to talk negatively about other, don't gossip and don't listen to gossip.

5. Have a forgiving view of people. Believe that most people are doing the best they can.

6. Keep open mind, discuss but don't argue.
(It is possible to disagree without being disagreeable).

7. Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before doing or saying anything
that could make matters worst.

8. Let your virtues speak for themselves.

9. If someone criticizes you, see if any TRUTH to what he is saying; if so,
make changes. If there is no truth to the criticism, ignore it and live so
that no one will believe the negative remark.

10. Cultivate your sense of humor; laughter is the shortest distance between
two people.

11. Do not seek so much to be consoled, as to console;
Do not seek so much to be understood, as to understand;
Do not seek so much to be loved, as to love.

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