Why is that some people's discussions end in argument while others may discuss the same subject and end their discussion in a friendly manner?
It has everything to do with the skills of holding a discussion.
Why is it that when two people deliver the same sermon with the same words,you find that among the audience of the first person someone is yawning or sleeping,another isplaying with prayer mat,and others are repeatedly shifting,whilst the audience listening to the second are listening attentively to the sermon,such that they cannot even blink an eyelid nor of what is being said?
It has everything to do with oratory skills.
Why is it when one school teacher walks through the corridor,all the students gather around him? One shaking his hand,another asking his advice,and yet another complaining about a problem;if he were to sit in his office and allow the students to enter,it would be filled with students in seconds as everyone wishes to sit with him.
Yet, another teacher walks through the corridor by himself and leaves the school's mosque and he is alone. No student approaches him to shake his hand,or to complain about a problem.If he were to leave his office open form sunrise to sunset,no one would ever come to sit as nobody seems to like to be in his company.Why?
Because it has everything to do with interpersonal skills.
Why is that a father enters his house and his children smile at him with joy,whereas another comes to see his children but they do not even turn to acknowledge his presence? It is all to do with the skills of dealing with children.
You can say the same about mosque,wedding parties and so on. People tend to differ in varying degrees form each other in terms of their interpersonal skills,and,accordingly,the way they are treated by others also differs to varying degrees.Influencing people and earning their love is easier than one can imagine. People also are affected by the way we deal with them weather we realize it or not. Furthermore,as when we tend to get used to such skills,they become part of our nature,and others certainly notice it when we negligently fail to practice them.
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